It’s easy to sit just wishin’ and hopin’. That won’t get you to where you want to go. It sounds like a song doesn’t it. Wishin’ and Hopin.’
To meet your goals, whatever they are, you need to take massive, consistent and relentless action, as Tony Robbins has stated.
You’ll be beset by critics, both outer and inner critics. The critical voice in your head that says, “who do you think you are? You can’t do that. You’re not good enough.”
Whose voices are those? Stop. Listen. You can recognize the voices. They are your parents, neighbors, childhood friends, teachers, coaches, etc.
These are the people who started the whole thing. Beware of strangers. Stranger-danger.
That was good advice when you were a kid. Now, you need to get along in this world, work and play well with others, network, etc.
As adults or older people, you are now responsible for understanding and correcting that. If nothing changes, nothing changes.
Albert Ellis gave you instructions about how to overcome these deficits. Read about him, ABC-DE Theory, REBT and RET. You can watch and listen to him on Youtube. It will be worth the time.
As Jim Rohn says, “Don’t wait for the world to get better. Don’t wait for the soil to get better. Don’t wait for work to get better. You must get better.”
Ellis tells you how to do this. If you want help with this, contact me. Call me. Hit the call me button.